
About Me

About Me
I believed the judge would rule in favor of my children’s best interests. The harsh reality is that the courts frequently place children in the hands of a skillful narcissistic abuser. Many judges, attorneys, therapists, guardian ad litems (GALs), parent coordinators (PCs), child custody evaluators, mediators, and health care professionals do not understand, believe, or want to believe the intricate dynamics of post-separation control.
​I have the knowledge and skill set to apply licensed, professional experience to each case. One-size-does-not-fit-all. Each case is unique. Each family is unique. I cannot guarantee any legal outcome. I can offer support, knowledge, empathy, and survival tools to protective parents trying to survive the challenges you face in the legal system. While the court system may rubber-stamp your case, I promise that I believe you, I hear you and I will support you through this difficult journey.
Becoming a parent is one of the most joyous times in our lives. Most of us never imagine that our family system may one day fall apart. Entering a custody battle can result in a sea of emotional chaos as the control of the legal process is out of our control. Our children’s well-being is oftentimes at the mercy of unqualified, uneducated “professionals” who have a false belief system that having both parents equally involved in their children’s lives is needed post-separation. While this is true where power and control tactics are not the core issue of custody, reasonable parents do not thrive on misusing the court system for personal gain. All too often, there is little if any, consideration by decision makers involved in custody to keep children safe during and after separation. I will support and work with you to help educate those involved in your case for the safest, most reasonable custody outcome.
I have decades of experience in dealing with high conflict individuals both personally and professionally. I am passionate about helping protective parents retain custody while providing a safe environment for their children as they navigate the complex court system. I understand the intricate dynamics and false narratives that abusers use during and after separation to punish the safe parent as their relationship ends. There is no greater fear than losing custody to an abuser.


